I decided a long time ago to never intentionally hold a woman back either personally or at work or in general. Never to consciously make a gender degrading comment about her looks or being emotionally or whatever the fuck can be attributed to us as womenfolk. I also refuse to use any female based swear words. And I swear a lot which makes this one particularly difficult (I do use male based swear words instead. A lot.). You will never hear me say cunt, pussy, bitch, whore or any other fantastic word describing female anatomy or characteristics. I especially fucking hate the word douche, no one even seems to even know what it actually means so I can't really fault them for using it, but let’s look at this one in particular because someone ‘who’s a douche’ is generally according to the wonderful source urban dictionary "an individual who has shown themself to be very brainless in one way or another" (not to be confused with douchebag which is someone "who has surpassed the levels of jerk and asshole, however not yet reached fucker or motherfucker". Now a douche is a tool used for irrigation of the female genitalia. A concept in itself completely fucking insane and if nothing else bad for you. So here we have people being likened to a contraption which one inserts into the vagina to clean it out. I can’t even bring myself to spell out the sheer stupidity of that word.
I do these things for a very simple reason - Every time a female criticise another female for being female the guys win. One point to them. Every time we call someone a bitch or a whore the guys get a free goal. Women fuck things up all the time, women do a bad job all the time, women do stupid shit all the time, and men will make that point loud and fucking clear every single time so there is no need for us to add to that choir by backing them up. There’s no need to invade a country that’s already engaged in civil war. I mean the guys still invade us on a daily basis in every single possible way they can think of but it’s made so much easier by the fact that we back them the fuck up.
We do this in so many ways every day, instead of backing each other up we criticise and sneer and snigger, we take the guys side all the time. If we instead of pushed each other down and acted like we’re in competition with each other we might be able to get more of us up there to give a reaching hand down to pull the rest of us up. The guys won’t help in the fight for equality (except for in Sweden, but they also have issues with their masculinity over there so I’m not sure I agree with the Swedish male feminists...) and we’re doing fuck all at the moment to do anything about it! It’s like we’re mistaking the current let’s get sexual and naked by our own accord and call each other bitches and whores as empowerment and as working towards equality. We’re only doing what the guys want us to do without them even having to ask or harass us for it. Not so sure this latest wave of sexualised empowerment by the twerking masses is actually doing anything other than making it socially acceptable to wear less clothes, which in summer isn't such a bad thing.
Here is an
example of this wonderful phenomena of women joining the dickheads in their fight against women, I admit this one isn't your normal office bitch fight but I think it highlights something so wonderfully disturbed about the female psyche.
I could give you a summary of the article but just
go read it instead:
What’s shocking is the other woman who are opposing this! Why? How is that in any way shape or form doing anything to offend you? This quote by a woman is truly astounding "Women's singing is offensive here. Men who don't want to hear women singing can't close their ears. It's sexually provocative and violates local mores," she said. "This issue has been cast in terms of freedom.
But it's not about the freedom of women to worship – this is violating the freedom of men not to hear women singing." So what if it offends the dudes, you offended on their behalf? If you’re going to be offended on behalf of someone else why not be offended on the behalf of the sisters who are more likely to be there for you in any issue you will go through as a human being?
Can we all just stop fucking put each other down even though it might be justified sometimes, some idiot dude will do it anyway so no need for us to say it as well. Pretty Please?
